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Is Collaborative Practice right for you?
Divorce is a sensitive personal matter. No single approach is right for
everyone. Many couples do find the no-court process known as Collaborative
Practice (Collaborative Law/Collaborative Divorce) a welcome alternative
to the often destructive, uncomfortable aspects of conventional divorce.
If these values are important to you, Collaborative Practice is likely
to be a workable option for you:
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I
want to maintain the tone of respect, even when we disagree. |
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I want to prioritize
the needs of our children. |
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My needs and
those of my spouse require equal consideration, and I will listen
objectively. |
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I believe that
working creatively and cooperatively solves issues. |
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It is important
to reach beyond today's frustration and pain to plan for the future. |
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I can behave
ethically toward my spouse. |
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I choose to maintain
control of the divorce process with my spouse, and not relegate
it to the courts. |
Does this path sound and feel comfortable for you? We suggest that you
talk to a Collaborative lawyer, divorce coach, child specialist, or financial
professional about your situation to help you make the decision.
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